Eulogy Examples for Sibling

We've created three distinct eulogy examples for honoring a brother or sister, each with a different style and focus. Choose the one that best reflects your unique sibling relationship and helps express your feelings during this difficult time.

5-7 minutes reading time

Traditional Formal Eulogy for a Sibling

A structured eulogy that honors your sibling's life journey, character, and the bond you shared through a balanced and respectful approach.

Good morning. My name is [Your Name], and I am [Brother/Sister]'s [brother/sister]. Thank you all for being here today to honor the life of my [brother/sister], who meant so much to so many of us.

[Sibling's Name] was born on [birth date] to our parents, [Parents' Names]. [He/She] was the [birth order—eldest, middle, youngest] of [number] children. From the beginning, [he/she] displayed the qualities of [key character traits—kindness, determination, creativity] that would define [his/her] life.

Growing up together in [hometown], we shared a childhood filled with [shared childhood experiences—adventures, family traditions, ordinary moments]. I remember when [specific childhood memory that illustrates their character or your relationship]. Even then, [his/her] [quality—sense of humor, bravery, compassion] was evident.

[Sibling] attended [schools] and went on to [higher education/career path]. [He/She] excelled at [academic/professional accomplishments] and found great fulfillment in [his/her] work as a [profession]. [His/Her] colleagues have shared how [workplace impact or relationships], and it's clear [he/she] brought the same [qualities] to [his/her] professional life as [he/she] did to personal relationships.

In [year], [Sibling] [married/met partner], and their [number] years together were filled with [description of their relationship—mutual respect, adventure, devotion]. Together they built a life of [shared values or accomplishments] and were blessed with [children or other family they created together]. As [a parent/partner], [Sibling] was [parenting/partnership qualities], always making sure [his/her] loved ones felt [how they made family feel—secure, cherished, supported].

Beyond family, [Sibling] found joy and purpose through [hobbies, interests, volunteer work, faith]. When [he/she] discovered [passion or interest], it became a significant part of [his/her] life. [He/She] approached it with characteristic [enthusiasm, dedication, excellence], and through it, touched the lives of [people impacted by this interest or activity].

The bond between siblings is unlike any other—forged in childhood, tested through adolescence, and deepened in adulthood. [Sibling] and I shared [describe your relationship—ups and downs, mutual support, inside jokes]. [He/She] knew me in a way no one else could, having witnessed nearly every chapter of my life. When I needed [support, advice, a laugh], [he/she] was the person I turned to.

[Sibling] faced challenges with remarkable [quality—courage, grace, determination]. When confronted with [difficult life circumstance or illness], [he/she] [how they handled adversity]. [His/Her] strength during this time was an inspiration to all who witnessed it, teaching us about [lesson from their example].

What made [Sibling] truly special was [his/her] ability to [unique gift—connect with others, find joy in small moments, see the best in people]. So many of you have shared stories of how [he/she] [impact on others—listened when you needed someone, encouraged you to pursue dreams, showed up in times of need]. These stories illustrate the person [he/she] was and the legacy [he/she] leaves behind.

[Sibling]'s life was defined by [core values—love, integrity, service]. [He/She] believed strongly in [personal philosophy or belief] and lived according to these principles every day. When faced with difficult decisions, [he/she] would [characteristic approach to challenges or ethical dilemmas].

I will miss [specific things you'll miss—daily phone calls, holiday traditions, the sound of their laughter]. I will miss the way [he/she] [specific habit or trait]. Most of all, I will miss the understanding that comes from sharing a history, a family, and a bond that began before we could even form memories.

In recent [days/weeks/months], as [he/she] faced [illness or circumstances of death], [Sibling] continued to show [quality—courage, humor, concern for others]. Even in [his/her] final days, [he/she] [meaningful action or words from the end of life].

Though there is a [brother/sister]-shaped hole in my heart that will never be filled, I take comfort in knowing that [Sibling]'s legacy lives on—in [his/her] [children/achievements/impact on others], in the memories we all carry, and in the ways [he/she] changed us for the better.

[Sibling], I am grateful for the gift of being your [brother/sister]. Thank you for [specific things to thank them for—your protection, your laughter, your wisdom]. The thread that connected us in life remains unbroken by death. I will carry you with me always.

Tips for Delivering This Eulogy

  • Personalize the example with specific memories, stories, and qualities unique to your sibling.
  • Include special traditions, inside jokes, or experiences that only the two of you shared.
  • Consider having a backup person who can continue reading if emotions become overwhelming.
  • Practice reading the eulogy aloud several times before the service to build familiarity.
  • Include both childhood memories and more recent experiences to show the evolution of your relationship.
  • Bring water and tissues with you to the podium.
  • If you become emotional during delivery, pause, take a breath, and continue when ready.

How to Customize This Example

To personalize this eulogy for your sibling, consider including details about:

  • Specific childhood memories that capture your unique bond
  • How your relationship evolved from childhood through adulthood
  • Challenges you faced together or supported each other through
  • Shared interests, hobbies, or passions
  • Family traditions you maintained or created together
  • Your sibling's impact on you personally—ways they shaped who you are
  • Stories that showcase their personality, humor, or character
  • The legacy they leave behind in children, achievements, or values
  • Inside jokes or expressions that were special between you
  • How you plan to honor their memory going forward

Additional Support During This Difficult Time

Losing a sibling can be particularly challenging as you navigate both your own grief and potentially supporting other family members through theirs. Our eulogy generator can help create a personalized draft based on your unique relationship.